dalam hidup..
selalu sangat kita tahu apa pun dugaan dan cabaran mesti wanita yg berkorban..
yang sanggup melakukan apa sahaja untuk keluarga..untuk anak anak..
tp kenapa juga bila dah berkorban..
ada sahaja yg tak kena..mesti wanita juga yg selalu dipersalahkan..di fitnah..
banyak sangat yang aku dengar..lelaki x keje..lelaki bagi belanja rumah tak cukup,..
sampai ada yang bercerai berai semata mata kerana tangungjawab yang kurang dihulurkan oleh kaum Adam ni..
pelik tapi benar kan..
dulu waktu zaman Nabi Muhammad s.a.w lelaki dihargai..dipandang mulia..
tapi sekarang ni..peranan lelaki dah setanding tara dengan kaum wanita..
wanita lebih productive, lebih dominan dan juga disebabkan terlalu banyak kes penceraian..
wanita lebih berdiri teguh..yang boleh dibanggakan walaupon dikurniakan anak yg ramai..
masih lagi ramai wanita diluar sana..sanggup menggalas tugas..sebagai wanita bekerjaya,sebagai ibu,dan juga
menangung segala perbelanjaan isi rumah..
wahai lelaki..
anda sepatutnya pasti dengan kehendak anda..
dahulukan apayg perlu..
kadang2 tak cukup belanja dapur semata mata kerana nak tukar sport rim kereta,.nak berbaju baru..
ataupon mungkin dibelanjakan pada apa yang tidak perlu..
jangan jadi lelaki yg dayus untuk meminta belanja ataupon membeli barang keperluan dari isteri..
cukup la dengan tugas sebagai seorang ibu dirumah,.
sebagai seorang yg bekerja..dan amatlah tidak wajar untuk terus menerus menyesakkan kepala dan pikiran isteri untuk unnessacary stuff.. ;D
~xoxo..mumy~
Monday, February 20, 2012
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
my new Born 11.01.2012 Zarith Rayqal Shaiful Anuar..
This is a new blog of me,..
since i have left my previous blog..
to much of sadden strory then to tell,. ;
and actually while writing this post i still in my confinement of my 3rd kids,..a bundle of joy which i would like to tell em about his birthing experience..
i was overdue for this pregnancy bout 8days..all because i do monthly checked at 2different places..at normal clinic and also with the specialist..it was supposed on 2nd January 2012 instead of 10th by the clinic..and i was quit stubborn,..i wasn't prepared for the operation and still hoping waiting for normal birth and leakage/water broke..but till then waited on 10th there is nothing shown up..;) and by 11th morning i was pretty sure there is a bit choclish blood stain on my pantyliner..my husband and me was rush to hospital ampang,. and i prepare to go for gov since early of pregnancy..
waited for nearly 2hrs for the medical examination by practical dc at hospital ampang, there doing a CTg,.(heartbeat for baby),urinary test, and even they check the jalan down there and the result is my baby heartbeat a bit fast,.and i dont have any jalan (cervical door was only open by 2cm) and the specialist said and ask me to decide either going with normal birth and waited + drip OR going for Cesarean ..owh its a bit difficult since ive heard with C-section you gonna have pain all over the year if you wasn't care enough on Ur pantang..the stitches will open if you do lot of hard work..event could not carry your older kids,..its a bit tough decision here that i have to made
and after all..i go for the cesarean,.
first because: i want my baby delivered safe even with my situation it may harm on me..i might bleeds because my obese..
2nd: i eager to see this baby which i don't even know the gender..and this is my kids..what ever the consequences..please safe him first before me..that what i did said to the aesthetics doctor..and he just smile.
menitik air mata because im so worried,. im so scared to when through it,.and i just put hopes, faith and pray a big one on this operation.
the operations was schedule around 9pm..and i need to puasa bout 6hrs before the czer..and in the same time while waiting in labour room,i keep praying with all the dhua..hopefully everything went smooth and in the same time,.dipermudahkan dan me n baby safety..
there was a lot of pre-ops stuff like shaving,.giving me fluids,..few drip of antibiotics etc..drive me crazy while waited with perasaan yg nervous yea because i have beautiful daughter with normal birth of 4.68kg..and gorgeous hero which born with 4.4kg..and going through ops is totally not in idea..
then..
i met with my anesthesiologist doctor,..indian handsome guy,.Dr kumar which was very overwhelm,.he did discuss with me about bius and say :"you was with the expertise..the good once..and dun worry we enjoying this section with you..dun feel bad because cant go with normal..i giving assurance this is gonna be fine..and don't cry ya dear.." then he did the spinal which was suprisingly very quick, simple,problem fee and effective..instead on putting a tube to my ms V and staying there for urine..the spinal was more better experience.
so once the surgery start i feel the burning smells,..which i never read about it before.,it is a smell they cutting my skins..(owch..)but goes away very quickly..then i realize when i can see the reflection between the surgical lights and i just can see while they doing the ops.that completely freaked me out and i just focus to the doa that i keep praying.
after a while both of the doctor was keep pushing my stomach and i heard she said "the baby was big and sleeping..x nak keluar la.." there was preasure for me but no pain and she said "okey baby will coming out shortly."Then my baby boy was out and start crying immediately..the cold OR room was only with his little voice..which then made my tears,.out of extreme joy of course.
they cleaned him out and the nurse brought him to me and ask me.."baby apa ni puan?" and i saw his bibird..oh that is why while shopping when i take blue and pink..i mprefered blue more..and keeps the pinks and just take the blue one..mother instict.. ;)
happily after that i been push from OR to observation room since i have minor bleeding while on the theater..but no worries im much healthy right now..and to share:the most experiences on cesarean is that once the bius was out,the nightmare is on my first move..feeling of the soreness on my abdominal is similar to having a heavy period blues and to have stand upright..but ya,.on the first day wasn't good..and 2nd day ,im getting more and muchs better..
for all the mummy out there..either you were having normal birth or having a cesarean,.we as a mum,.should be happy,blessed,thankful because getting a new qaliph in the family is a bundle of joy..trust me,nothing would ever change my love for this three naughty,hyperactive kids..and welcome zarith rayqal in the family..;)
Zarith Rayqal bin Shaiful Anuar was born at 9.15pm 11.01.2012
weight :4.81kg.
length :53cm
apgar score :9/10
since i have left my previous blog..
to much of sadden strory then to tell,. ;
and actually while writing this post i still in my confinement of my 3rd kids,..a bundle of joy which i would like to tell em about his birthing experience..
i was overdue for this pregnancy bout 8days..all because i do monthly checked at 2different places..at normal clinic and also with the specialist..it was supposed on 2nd January 2012 instead of 10th by the clinic..and i was quit stubborn,..i wasn't prepared for the operation and still hoping waiting for normal birth and leakage/water broke..but till then waited on 10th there is nothing shown up..;) and by 11th morning i was pretty sure there is a bit choclish blood stain on my pantyliner..my husband and me was rush to hospital ampang,. and i prepare to go for gov since early of pregnancy..
waited for nearly 2hrs for the medical examination by practical dc at hospital ampang, there doing a CTg,.(heartbeat for baby),urinary test, and even they check the jalan down there and the result is my baby heartbeat a bit fast,.and i dont have any jalan (cervical door was only open by 2cm) and the specialist said and ask me to decide either going with normal birth and waited + drip OR going for Cesarean ..owh its a bit difficult since ive heard with C-section you gonna have pain all over the year if you wasn't care enough on Ur pantang..the stitches will open if you do lot of hard work..event could not carry your older kids,..its a bit tough decision here that i have to made
and after all..i go for the cesarean,.
first because: i want my baby delivered safe even with my situation it may harm on me..i might bleeds because my obese..
2nd: i eager to see this baby which i don't even know the gender..and this is my kids..what ever the consequences..please safe him first before me..that what i did said to the aesthetics doctor..and he just smile.
menitik air mata because im so worried,. im so scared to when through it,.and i just put hopes, faith and pray a big one on this operation.
the operations was schedule around 9pm..and i need to puasa bout 6hrs before the czer..and in the same time while waiting in labour room,i keep praying with all the dhua..hopefully everything went smooth and in the same time,.dipermudahkan dan me n baby safety..
there was a lot of pre-ops stuff like shaving,.giving me fluids,..few drip of antibiotics etc..drive me crazy while waited with perasaan yg nervous yea because i have beautiful daughter with normal birth of 4.68kg..and gorgeous hero which born with 4.4kg..and going through ops is totally not in idea..
then..
i met with my anesthesiologist doctor,..indian handsome guy,.Dr kumar which was very overwhelm,.he did discuss with me about bius and say :"you was with the expertise..the good once..and dun worry we enjoying this section with you..dun feel bad because cant go with normal..i giving assurance this is gonna be fine..and don't cry ya dear.." then he did the spinal which was suprisingly very quick, simple,problem fee and effective..instead on putting a tube to my ms V and staying there for urine..the spinal was more better experience.
so once the surgery start i feel the burning smells,..which i never read about it before.,it is a smell they cutting my skins..(owch..)but goes away very quickly..then i realize when i can see the reflection between the surgical lights and i just can see while they doing the ops.that completely freaked me out and i just focus to the doa that i keep praying.
after a while both of the doctor was keep pushing my stomach and i heard she said "the baby was big and sleeping..x nak keluar la.." there was preasure for me but no pain and she said "okey baby will coming out shortly."Then my baby boy was out and start crying immediately..the cold OR room was only with his little voice..which then made my tears,.out of extreme joy of course.
they cleaned him out and the nurse brought him to me and ask me.."baby apa ni puan?" and i saw his bibird..oh that is why while shopping when i take blue and pink..i mprefered blue more..and keeps the pinks and just take the blue one..mother instict.. ;)
happily after that i been push from OR to observation room since i have minor bleeding while on the theater..but no worries im much healthy right now..and to share:the most experiences on cesarean is that once the bius was out,the nightmare is on my first move..feeling of the soreness on my abdominal is similar to having a heavy period blues and to have stand upright..but ya,.on the first day wasn't good..and 2nd day ,im getting more and muchs better..
for all the mummy out there..either you were having normal birth or having a cesarean,.we as a mum,.should be happy,blessed,thankful because getting a new qaliph in the family is a bundle of joy..trust me,nothing would ever change my love for this three naughty,hyperactive kids..and welcome zarith rayqal in the family..;)
Zarith Rayqal bin Shaiful Anuar was born at 9.15pm 11.01.2012
weight :4.81kg.
length :53cm
apgar score :9/10
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| Zarith Rayqal Shaiful Anuar 11.01.2012. |
introduce to my little princess n prince's
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| Big Sis n youngest bro.. ;) |
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| Zarith Rayqal 11.01.2012 |
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| adieb n sha.. ;) |
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